16 Eckhart Tolle Love Quotes That Will Help You Center Your Heart

Every time my monkey mind starts playing tricks on me, I reach for my list of Eckhart Tolle love quotes to regain my balance. Yes, I’m aware that it sounds like a juvenile thing to do. However, it is quite mature and self-nurturing.

Though I call them Eckhart Tolle love quotes, they are really about self-love and acceptance.

Over the years, I realized that our souls are like any other part of us. We need to feed them, sculpt them, and develop them if we desire to live to the best of our abilities. That is what Tolle understands incredibly well. His teachings show us that we can change for the better. Moreover, he points out that our perspective shapes the circumstances and not the other way around.

Nevertheless, I don’t want to interpret this brilliant man too much. Let’s dive right into the Eckhart Tolle love quotes!

16 Eckhart Tolle Love Quotes That Will Help You Center Your Heart

Quotes on the Nature of Love

#1. “As far as inner transformation is concerned, there is nothing you can do about it. You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else. All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.”

#2. “When you look upon another human being and feel great love toward them or when you contemplate beauty in nature and something within you responds deeply to it, close your eyes for a moment and feel the essence of that love or that beauty within you, inseparable from who you are — your true nature. The outer form is a temporary reflection of what you are within, in your essence. That is why love and beauty can never leave you, although all outer forms will.”

#3. “Internal and external are ultimately one. When you no longer perceive the world as hostile, there is no more fear, and when there is no more fear, you think, speak, and act differently. Love and compassion arise, and they affect the world.

#4. “All the things that truly matter — beauty, love, creativity, joy and inner peace — arise from beyond the mind.”

#5. “As soon as you honor the present moment, all unhappiness and struggle dissolve, and life begins to flow with joy and ease. When you act out the present-moment awareness, whatever you do becomes imbued with a sense of quality, care, and love — even the most simple action.”

#6. “Love is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you.”

#7. “Love, joy, and peace cannot flourish until you have freed yourself from mind dominance.”

Quotes on Loving Another

#8. “If you both agree that the relationship will be your spiritual practice, so much the better. You can then express your thoughts and feelings to each other as soon as they occur or as soon as a reaction comes up, so that you do not create a time gap in which an unexpressed or unacknowledged emotion or grievance can fester and grow.”

#9. “True communication is communion — the realization of oneness, which is love.”

#10. “When you have removed the two factors that are destructive to relationships — when the pain-body has been transmuted, and you are no longer identified with mind and mental positions — and if your partner has done the same, you will experience the bliss of the flowering of relationship. Instead of mirroring to each other your pain and your unconsciousness, instead of satisfying your mutual addictive ego needs, you will reflect back to each other the love that you feel deep within, the love that comes with the realization of your oneness with all that is. This is the love that has no opposite.”

#11. “What is commonly called ‘falling in love’ is, in most cases, an intensification of egoic wanting and needing. You become addicted to another person, or rather to your image of that person. It has nothing to do with true love, which contains no wanting whatsoever.”

#12. “Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive. Exclusivity is not the love of God, but the ‘love’ of ego. However, the intensity with which true love is felt can vary.”

#13. “If you are in the habit of creating suffering for yourself, then you are probably creating suffering for others too.”

#14. “Learn to give expression to what you feel without blaming. Learn to listen to your partner in an open, non-defensive way. Give your partner space for expressing himself or herself. Be present. Accusing, defending, attacking — all those patterns that are designed to strengthen or protect the ego or to get its needs met will then become redundant. Giving space to others — and to yourself — is vital. Love cannot flourish without it.”

#15. “There may be one person who reflects your love back to you more clearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels the same toward you, it can be said that you are in a love relationship with him or her. The bond that connects you with that person is the same bond that connects you with the person sitting next to you on a bus, or with a bird, a tree, a flower. Only the degree of intensity with which it is felt differs.”

#16. “To love is to recognize yourself in another.”


Come to think of it, one can look at these sentences as relationship advice. Only the relationship is often with oneself. Nonetheless, it is the most important and long-lasting affair that we will ever have.

Hopefully, you enjoyed my list of Eckhart Tolle love quotes. His books offer insights into the truths we keep hidden in ourselves. What’s more, they are invaluable reading material for anyone embarking on a spiritual journey. In the end, every person has a different path, and although it is a solitary road, it does not have to be a lonely one.