A healthy sexlife is integral to our overall well-being. We make jokes about blue-balls or dry deserts, but the jokes can hide a frustrating reality: that without a sexual release, our testerone or estrogen levels can drop, leading to depression and a lack of energy.
However, whether you are alone or in a relationship, there are so many ways you can enjoy a healthy sexlife without entering a routine of monotony with your partner or simply having a lonely release by yourself.
One way to either spice up sex, if you are in a long-term relationship or enjoy the company of hot girls, guys or transgenders who are looking for the same fun and games as you are, is to take a trip into the online world of adult video chat.
What Is An Adult Video Chat Site?
When adult video chat sites first burst onto our screens, they tended to be full of XXX cam models who would perform a live sex act in a closed session that you would pay for. Today, the sites have grown both in what they offer, who they attract, which people stream live in webcam rooms and even what a cam girl or guy will do. They are certainly primarily about sex, but they are far from just being about sex.
Video chat sites, more commonly referred to as cam sites, are platforms where anyone from anywhere can open a webcam feed and start chatting to people all over the world. As opposed to social media sites, adult cam sites are focused on non-PG chat. It is like having a date in your home with someone who you can talk to, flirt with, and pretty much be guaranteed that the clothes will come off at some point, and the juices will start flowing.
With so many adult video chat rooms out there, the first obstacle will be finding the right one for your preferences. Sites such as GodOfPorn feature reviews and lists of all the top cam sites so you can easily find one suited for your preferences.
Spice it Up With A Stranger
For couples, passively watching a live cam show or engaging cam models or cam couples is a safe way to spice up your sexlife without the worry of inviting a stranger into their physical world.
Together, a couple can enjoy some extremely steamy live sex action, while having a virtual threesome, and can remain anonymous and not even give out their names or where they live. It is the thrill of the unknown, with the security that they are in total control. And with one click of the button, it is all over.
If you are by yourself, live cams are far more intimate and personal than watching an adult movie and pleasuring yourself. At a cam site, it is a real-time date with just a monitor separating you and your new partner. Somewhat akin online dating sites, the cam models at the sites cover every category and preference.
The difference is that the people you find on a webcam site are all looking for a sexual escapade. You can find professional pornstars streaming live cam chat shows alongside amateur cam girls and guys who are just looking for someone to talk with, and if the feeling is mutual, you can take things to the next non-PG level.
Are You Ready For The Reveal?
A live cam chat room is not necessarily a one-sided setting. You can browse through the rooms on a site, incognito in most cases, without ever revealing your identity, or at most the screen name you have adopted on the site. You can watch from the shadows like a silent voyeur.
And certainly, if voyeurism is your fetish, then cam sites are a playground from which you will rarely depart. Live cam feed after live cam feed show all types of people performing all types of acts. You can jump from room to room almost endlessly. You can even search for a particular type of person or spicy sex act and enjoy the hundreds of options that are streaming live.
However, for many, after they have enjoyed being a silent witness, the time comes for some participation. This is where a cam site can really spice it up. When you are ready to take the plunge, most cam sites make it quick and easy to open your webcam feed so the cam girl (or guy or couple) can see your live feed and you can talk to each other face-to-face in a cam2cam show.
Fun Sex Ideas For Couples & Singles
Having some video chat fun with a hot cam girl or guy is also a great way to explore kinks and fetishes that you and your partner may have thought about but have not yet taken things further than an awkward conversation to check out boundaries and reactions.
When it comes to the spicier sex acts if you are doing something for the first time or simply exploring the idea with your partner, sharing the experience with a skilled and seasoned fan of the fetish makes all the difference.
They know what to do to give the ultimate pleasure, they can guide you according to your pace in testing the waters of whatever kink you have fantasied about. They can even watch from the monitor and help you both get the maximum out of the experience whether they are a part of the game or simply providing an expert hand in how to make sure you are having the best first time ever.
If you are by yourself, a cam2cam show with a hot cam girl (or guy or transgender) model is a no-brainer. Simply choose the action you have always wanted to explore and then find a safe and trusted cam site that features webcam rooms hosted by models who specialize in your fave fetish.
These fetish cam hosts are used by first-time experimenters, and while many are lifestyle devotees of the genre, there is nothing that many enjoy more than helping a curious webcam partner discover whether the kink is their kind of thing or not.
Private Shows Vs Free Shows
Any room you enter without paying, while it may be a fantastic show featuring a hot naked model (or even several hot naked models) playing with themselves or others in front of a live feed, you are just a voyeur there. You can tip the performer for some acknowledgment or even get them to do something specific, but that is about as far as it goes.
If you want to open your cam feed for some face-to-face fun or simply enjoy a 1on1 date with the host, you will need to go into an exclusive show. The model will then close their room so you are the only viewer in it and no one else can take part in the conversation. These shows have a per-minute rate as opposed to the free fun and games you have been enjoying in the open cam rooms.
The price for a private show varies greatly depending on the skill and appearance of the model, as well as which cam site they are broadcasting from. Some cam sites are known as Freemium cam sites and host public rooms that feature X-rated action in their free rooms. These cam sites mostly play host to amateur webcam performers.
While this is great if you are just in the mood to flick through the cam shows as if you are browsing Netflix, it also means that the streaming quality and the skill of the performer varies greatly, with many amateur exhibitionists steaming up the screen, and not necessarily looking for a cam partner, rather just someone to watch them get their kink on.
Premium cam sites, on the other hand, feature mostly semi-professional and professional cam models who generally are skilled stars in their category (age, body type and ethnicity) and they know how to perform in front of a webcam so the viewer gets the best experience possible.
On the other hand, at these sites, there are no free explicit shows. You can enter a room and chat to the model, but anything that is non-PG is relegated to a private show mode only, where you need to pay a per-minute rate.
Now you know what an adult webcam site is all about and what to expect from a visit to any leading adult video chat platform. The only thing left to do is check a few out. Just remember your anonymity is guaranteed. You can browse most live cam sites without signing up or giving any personal information whatsoever. This means no one knows you are there and of course, your cam feed is off, so there is no chance for the performers to see what is on your webcam.
The only thing you must do is sit back and enjoy the action that is steaming up your monitor or mobile device.